New Testament Churches

Where are the churches of the New Testament? Churches are watered down these days. The man is the spiritual leader of the house. If the man is removed, the family will disappear. It's in commercials, TV shows, songs and the silver screen. They have all removed the husband/father. A church can't get 10 men to join a men's Bible study but when they have a softball call out, 50 men will sign up. We need prayer warriors for the spiritual battle we face.